Want to rebuild your marriage?

Make the decision to choose one another over and over and over again

When others would crumble, learn to stand firm.

Does this sound familiar?

Drifting Apart

Circumstances in life are constantly pulling you in different directions and it makes spending time together feel impossible but there isn’t anything you can do about it.

Intentional Separation

You or your spouse (or both) look for reasons to be away from your marriage and find fulfillment and joy in activities that don’t involve the other person.

Constant Battles

From small, insignificant decisions to big, important ones, you feel like you cannot get your spouse to understand (or even listen) to your point of view without arguing about it.

Fear and Hopelessness

You don’t know how to start repairing your relationship and aren’t even totally sure you want to. You don’t want to feel this way but you have no idea how to start reconnecting.

We understand because we’ve been there too!

We have been in that place where it seemed like there was no saving our relationship and now we are committed to helping each couple we coach experience growth, hope, purpose, and healing for their marriage!

And here is how we can help...

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Coaching Sessions

A lot of couples are resistant to “counseling” because they feel like it didn’t work or have felt frustrated and abandoned by cookie-cutter counseling methods that don’t address the real issues beneath the surface.

We don’t just rehash your past and play the blame game. We help you see the possibility of a better future.


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Personalized Challenges

No two marriages are alike which means no two marriages have the exact same struggles. 

While the actions may be the same, the motivations are completely unique.

We help you uncover what is causing the wounds and give you actionable steps to move towards healing them.


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Follow-up between sessions

You are not one of dozens of couples in a huge counseling practice. You are 2 hurting people in desperate need of guidance and grace

We care deeply about our clients and what is going on with their lives.

Beyond our regular sessions, it is not unusual to get texts and emails from us to see how things are going.

We all want a happy marriage, but that isn’t our goal for you. We want you to have a purposeful marriage, a hopeful marriage!

Brad and Lisa Valencia

Unfortunately, we are subject matter experts on affair recovery...

because we have gone through it.

You may feel like your marriage is shattered, like there is no hope for the two of you, that you don’t understand each other anymore, that you don’t feel in love, that you can’t communicate, can’t trust, can’t heal, and can’t move forward

But you don’t have to stay that way!!

We know what it is to be completely hopeless, and have to build something brand new. 

And we know that your marriage can walk in healing, freedom, trust, listening, being understood, connecting intimately, and moving together towards a united vision,

You can build a marriage that seeks God together and is committed to continually learning one another for the rest of your lives.

We are certified coaches through Married For A Purpose and SYMBIS certified.

We have been a part of marriage ministry for years and have walked alongside so many couples on their journey of reconciliation, healing, growth, and purpose.

We love coaching.
We love doing marriage reboots.
We love good coffee, good food, good friends, and family. 

How to get started with marriage coaching

Contact Form

Let us know what your biggest struggle is right now and what you are hoping coaching can do for your marriage - CLICK HERE


We will send you an email with some resources based on your needs and share the goals for coaching to determine if it is what bets fits your current situation.

Coaching Sessions

If we all agree that we are good fit, we will schedule 1 or more coaching sessions aimed at pointing your marriage towards growth and recovery.

Cost of Coaching

1 session - $110

4 session package - $380

6 session package - $560

Right now there is no payment plan option, but we are always willing to work with couples to create a unique package or work out a pay as you go plan. 

We are happy to help in any way we can so please don’t hesitate to communicate with us regarding your unique situation.

Marriage Coaching is for you if…

your marriage feels hopeless,
your marriage is broken,
your marriage is stagnant,
you want to grow,
you want to heal,
you want to move forward,
you want to rebuild trust,
you want to learn.

*This is NOT for you if you aren’t ready to look inward and make changes rather than look outward and place blame. There is no reason for you to waste your time and money on something you are not ready to fully commit to.

God is the most important thing in our life and we pray He is reflected in everything we do. It is His direction we seek in every step we take with a couple.

Fear stops many people from taking the leap of faith towards something that seems intangible. Many times, our unmet expectations and disappointments keep us from seeing beyond what is right in front of us.

We know that you might think that there is no hope for your marriage, that no amount of help is ever going to make a difference for the two of you, and you might just be downright afraid of what change might look like and the work it would take.

But we are here to tell you that God is bigger than all of those things.

You can’t change your past, and you can’t control your future, but you can make the most of your present. There is never a better time to invest in your marriage than right now.

Our story

You can listen to our journey on Season 5 of the Unrelenting Pursuit Podcast

Unrelenting Pursuit Podcast Ep 80, selfie of man in camouflage hat with sunglasses in front of line of men kneeling at the water's edge
I started to compromise things here and there. Then all of a sudden I was lying to Lisa. Before I knew it, I was living a double life.

In this episode, Brad shares the small choices he made that eventually led him to places he never meant to go. He also shares how God reached him in those dark places and offered him a choice.

Unrelenting Pursuit Podcast Ep 81: Her Story graphic - woman with distressed look on her face leaning down into her hand to hold her up
I know that sounds really bad to say, but I was sitting there thinking, “God, I know you can save my marriage, but nothing’s happening.”

Join as we dive into these topics in Part 2 of our story where we hear from Lisa and what God taught her along the way as life, as she knew it, fell apart.