Marriage

“There is no way to know far away healing in your marriage is, but how you show up every single day and what you keep on doing to get there – it’s certainly going to shorten the distance!” Lisa The difference between where you want to be, and the life you dream of living, are […]

“If you are not having sex inside your marriage, that is a sign of an external problem.” Lisa Sexuality is one of the first places you can see the evidence of brokenness in a relationship. It holds great power to bring both connection and disconnection with your spouse.  God’s design for sex within marriage is

“You don’t want to be uncomfortable so you accept that if you are secure, that must be peace. But that’s not biblical peace.” Lisa We often give people advice that they should follow peace but what does that look like? If you are feeling comfortable, does that mean peace? What does it look like to

Family and friends can either hinder or help in marriage recovery and we wanted to address what it is like to be a part of the collateral damage when there is betrayed trust in a marriage.  On this episode we give some practical advice on how you can help. Don’t be a friend or family

“Everybody wants a miracle, but most people don’t want to walk through the process required to get it.” Lisa Mindset and Moving Forward are key to any aspect of your life if you don’t want to become stagnant. On this episode we talk about specific things that we learned that allowed us, through God, to

“Accountability and challenge are what breed Godly men.” Brad We developed guardrails and accountability the hard way. We didn’t think about them or develop them until our marriage was in crisis. At first, they started as a series of rules instead of a systemic way to approach life, but we learned how valuable they were

“I never even thought about forgiving myself. There are consequences to every action that you do and I thought that I just had to live with the shame.” Brad Our story involves a lot of forgiveness….on both sides. On this episode, we touch briefly on Lisa and what forgiveness looked like for her, but the

“Transparency is good – 100%. But how many layers do you want to go?” Brad When you are looking to rebuild trust that has been broken, there is an innate longing for the truth. In fact, you will go to great lengths in order to unearth any deception. And truth is a beautiful thing…but do

” I knew that every step I took was the potential to step towards more hurt.” Lisa In the past few weeks, we have walked you through our individual stories, and what God had to do in both of our lives to bring us to the point of reconciliation. Now we want to take you

I know that sounds really bad to say, but I was sitting there thinking, “God, I know you can save my marriage, but nothing’s happening.” Lisa The reality was that I was sitting there, I was praying, I was reading my Bible, and I was doing all the things I was supposed to be doing…