Do you know yourself?Do you know your spouse?Do you help your spouse know how to love you? Learning your spouse is an honor, a privilege you have for the rest of your life. You have the opportunity to grow individually, as a couple, and ultimately, in your walk with Christ. Don’t take this privilege for

“When you criticize yourself, you hurt your spouse.” Lisa A criticizing spouse is one of the key factors in divorce, but self criticism is also detrimental to the health of your marriage. On this episode we take a look at criticism, its effects, and some tangible steps you can take towards growth in this area.

“There is no way to know far away healing in your marriage is, but how you show up every single day and what you keep on doing to get there – it’s certainly going to shorten the distance!” Lisa The difference between where you want to be, and the life you dream of living, are

“If you are not having sex inside your marriage, that is a sign of an external problem.” Lisa Sexuality is one of the first places you can see the evidence of brokenness in a relationship. It holds great power to bring both connection and disconnection with your spouse.  God’s design for sex within marriage is

“You don’t want to be uncomfortable so you accept that if you are secure, that must be peace. But that’s not biblical peace.” Lisa We often give people advice that they should follow peace but what does that look like? If you are feeling comfortable, does that mean peace? What does it look like to

Family and friends can either hinder or help in marriage recovery and we wanted to address what it is like to be a part of the collateral damage when there is betrayed trust in a marriage.  On this episode we give some practical advice on how you can help. Don’t be a friend or family

“Everybody wants a miracle, but most people don’t want to walk through the process required to get it.” Lisa Mindset and Moving Forward are key to any aspect of your life if you don’t want to become stagnant. On this episode we talk about specific things that we learned that allowed us, through God, to

“Accountability and challenge are what breed Godly men.” Brad We developed guardrails and accountability the hard way. We didn’t think about them or develop them until our marriage was in crisis. At first, they started as a series of rules instead of a systemic way to approach life, but we learned how valuable they were